ok, so leasha asked me for some advice about... well lots of things. so i'm giving the condenced version of my cosmo skills :) because this comm is DYING and i'm gonna give it some CPR, ;P hehe.
Ok, Lesson One:
Read about sex. A lot.
It doesn't matter if it's in housewife porn (romance novels or fanfic, etc.), Cosmo (sex articles), or any other random source, read as much as you possbily can about sex. Note anything that the author uses as an example a lot, or specifically hgilights as important, like tips in a certain section, about giving head, whatever, if the author concentrates on that, pay attention to those details. this means that they've either found it effective, or they know from second hand knowledge that it's effective. If, for example, the author talks about a certain way of touching, tasting or biting, more than once in the same piece, give it a try, or at least add it to the file folder of "things to try" in your head.
that's the first sex lesson from the college of cosmo arts and sciences, as taught by prof. labrecque. :D
extra credit question: which of the following is an extremely hot way to eat an ice cream cone?
a)any old way, it's ice cream.
b)scraping your teeth lightly across it
c)swirling you tongue around the tip of the ice cream, and going down to the base of the ice cream that way
d)shoving the whole thing in your mouth
please answer in the form of a comment for full extra credit. :D